Archive for March, 2010
Self Respect,Money,India,Jammu,Me and You
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आजकल भारत में एक बहस छिड़ी हुई है कि महिलाओं के लिए आरक्षण होना चाहिए या नहीं,कुछ लोग इसके पक्ष मैं बोल रहे हैं और कुछ इसके विरुद्ध भी हैं। ऐसा लग भी रहा है कि महिला आरक्षण कानून पारित होने में अब ज़्यादा समय नहीं लगेगा। जवाहरलाल नेहरू ने एक बार कहा था कि सिर्फ कानून बनाने से कुछ नहीं हो सकता, स्त्री अथवा पुरूष तब तक 
आज़ाद नहीं हो सकते जब तक वह एक दूसरे के आर्थिक प्रधानता के तले दबे हुए हैं। भारत में आरक्षण देना एक प्रकार से गन्दी राजनीती का हिस्सा बन गया है और इस गंदगी से ज़्यादातर नेता अपना फायदा उठाना चाहते हैं और हम आम लोग भी कोई कसर नही छोड़ते अपने आपको जाती,धर्म आदि के नाम पर तोलने के सिवाय। हमारी सरकार हर समय भारत की मजबूत अर्थव्यवस्था का हवाल देते हुए अपने उत्तरदायित्व से बचती है पर सच्चाई इसके पूरे विपरीत ही है, गरीब ज़्यादा गरीब हो रहा है और अमीर ज़्यादा अमीर। देश मैं आज लाखों टन अनाज सड़ रहा है और मेहेंगाई दिन प्रतिदिन बदती ही जा रही है रही है और पूछने वाला कोई नही है। भ्रष्टाचार इस समय भारत को धीरे धीरे निगलता जा रहा है और हम इसे कम करने की बजाय व्यवस्था को इसका दोषी मानते हुए,अपने दायित्व से भाग रहे हैं। ऐसी गन्दी प्रणाली की वजह कोई और नहीं हम ही हैं।
यह तो हो गयी भारत की बात और अब हम बात करते हैं इसके एक राज्य जम्मू कश्मीर की बात। इस राज्य का इतिहास,संस्कृति,सुन्दरता अपने आप में अलग ही मिसाल रखते हैं,एक ऐसा राज्य यहाँ पर फिरंगी भी कब्ज़ा नहीं कर पाए। पर अब इस राज्य की ऐसी दुर्दशा हो चुकी है कि इसको शब्दों मैं बयाँ भी नही किया जा सकता। एक तरफ से पाकिस्तान दीमक कि तरह इसे खाए जा रहा है तो दूसरी तरफ से चीन गुपचुप तरीके से कब्ज़ा किये जा रहा है। और भारत को इससे कोई फिकर नही हैं क्यूंकि हमारे भारत मैं तब तक कुछ नहीं होता जब तक पानी सर के उपर से निकल ना जाये।
अब थोड़ी सी बात यहाँ पर होने वाली राजनीती की भी बात करते हैं,कांग्रेस जो की केंद्र मैं रहते हुए नारी सशक्तिकरण का नारा देती है वहीँ दूसरी तरफ राज्य में पीडीपी और नेकां से हाथ मिला कर एक ऐसा घिनोना विधेयक पारित करती है
जिसे कोई सपने में भी नही सोच सकता की क्या वाकई हम इक्कीसवीं सदी में जी रहे हैं। धर्माधारित क्षेत्रिय भेदभाव तो इस राज्य की नीयति बन चुका है मगर अब लिंगाधारित नागरिक भेदभाव भी मुंह उठा के खड़ा हो चूका है। इस विधेयक के खिलाफ कुछ आवाजें उठने भी लगी हैं,पर वो एक विशेष समुदाय तक ही सिमित रही हैं,फेसबुक पर इस विधेयक के खिलाफ काफी ज़ोर शोर से आवाज़ उठाई जा रही है पर वो इसे एक विहेश समुदाय तक ही सिमित रखे हुए हैं। क्या डोगरा,गोजरी,लदाखी आदि को अपने आतम सम्मान की कोई चिंता नहीं है? क्या हम लोग, खासकर मैं यहाँ डोगरों को ललकारना चाहूँगा क्यूंकि वो इस राज्य का दूसरा सबसे बड़ा समुदाय है जो इस विधेयक के खिलाफ कुछ भी नही बोल रहा। और यह कितने ही शर्म की बात है आजकल हम लोग पैसे को ज्यादा इज्ज़त देने लग गये हैं चाहे हमारा आतम सम्मान ही क्यूँ ना दाव पर लग जाये। क्या आज पैसा इतनी महतवपूर्ण ज़रिया बन गया है कि इसके अलावा हमने कुछ देखना ही बंद कर दिया है?
कल यही सवाल मैंने किसी से पूछा था की तुम्हारे लिए क्या ज़्यादा महत्व रखता है और उसका जवाब उल्टा मेरी ही तरफ था की, “अभी तुम्हें घर वाले खिला रहे हैं इसलिए तुम्हें पैसे की इज्ज़त नहीं पता”।
जो भी कुछ लोग इसे पड़ रहे हैं मेरा उनसे सिर्फ एक ही प्रशन है कि क्या आज की दुनिया में आतम सम्मान ज़्यादा मायने रखता है या फिर पैसा?,ये सवाल खासकर मैं जम्मुवासियों से पूछना चाहता हूँ ?
साथ ही मैं एक बात सपष्ट कर देना चाहता हूँ की मेरे इस प्रशन का बिल्कुल भी ऐसा मतलब ना निकला जाये की मेरे कहने का मतलब है सिर्फ इज्ज़त कमाओ,पैसा नहीं। मैं तो बस इतना जानना चाहता हूँ कि क्या पैसा कमाने के लिए हम अपने सम्मान को दाव पे लगा दे? हम लोग अक्सर देखते हैं की डोगरा,लद्दाखी अक्सर ऐसा इलज़ाम लगते हैं की कश्मीरी नेता हमारे साथ भेदभाव करते हैं,कभी किसी ने इसकी वजह जानने की कोशिश की?
“नहीं“,क्यूंकि हम सबको पता है इस भेदभाव के लिए ओर कोई नहीं सिर्फ हम खुद ही ज़िम्मेवार हैं।
कुछ लोग अक्सर मेरे पर आरोप लगाते हैं कि मुझे सिर्फ ब्लॉग लिखने आते हैं और जब मुझे हक़ीक़त में यह सब करना पड़ेगा तो ही असलियत का एहसास होगा,क्यूंकि ब्लॉग तो कोई भी लिख सकता है।
अगर ब्लॉग लिखना इतना ही आसान होता तो जम्मू में ब्लॉग लिखने वालों कि इतनी कम संख्या नहीं होती।
मेरा ब्लॉग लिखने का एक ही लक्ष्य है कि मैं अपने जम्मू की दबी हुई आवाज़ को सबके सामने रख सकूँ चाहे सामने वाला मुझे कितनी ही गालियाँ क्यूँ ना दे।
यह मैं करता रहूँगा जब तक मुझे मेरा लक्ष्य नहीं प्राप्त हो जाता है पर मैं तुम जैसे लोगों कि तरह अपने आतम सम्मान से ज़्यादा प्राथमिकता नहीं दूंगा, साथ ही मैं तुम लोगों की तरह system को दोषी मानने के बजाय हम सब को दोषी ठहराऊंगा और अगर मेरी इस सोच से किसी को कोई समस्या है तो मैं कुछ नहीं कर सकता।
मैं अपने भारत देश से बाकि देशों से ज़्यादा प्यार करता हूँ कारणवश मुझे पूरा अधिकार है कि मैं अपने देश (bharat) और अपनी मातृभूमि (जम्मू) की निरंतर आलोचना और प्रशंशा करूँ।
I know I am very rude in my last few statements,but few word of some Jammuities hurt me a lot like money matters more than self-respect,I can do anything for publicity(and the article:-Debut entry in Blog world written by some Abhyudhay,about whom I dont know much is also some fakie person created by me).
अगर अपनी आवाज़ रखना एक Publicity stunt कहलाता है तो हाँ मैं ज़रूर ऐसी publicity करता रहूँगा चाहे तुम्हें कितनी ही तकलीफ क्यूँ न हो।
As Sidhu says,”No one one dares to kick a dead dog.”
Someone has rightly said,“When we judge or criticize another person, it says nothing about that person; it merely says something about our own need to be critical.”
One more,”All of us could take a lesson from the weather. It pays no attention to criticism.”
जार्ज विलिअम्स ने एक बार कहा था,”A man’s country is not a certain area of land, of mountains, rivers, and woods, but it is a principle and patriotism is loyalty to that principle.”
जाते जाते एक छोटी सी कहानी सुनाता चलूँ :-
- एक बार एक मछुआरा नदी किनारे बैठा हुआ मछलियाँ पकड़ रहा था और उसी समय वहां पर एक अमीर आदमी आया और कुछ देर तक उस मछुआरे को कुछ दुरी से ध्यान से देखता रहा। एक घंटे बाद जब मछुआरा अपना कम समाप्त कर जाने लगा तो वह अमीर आदमी उसके पास आया और पूछा की इतनी जल्दी क्यूँ जा रहे हो ?
- मछुआरे ने जवाब दिया की मैंने एक घंटे में इतनी मछलियाँ पकड़ ली हैं की मेरा एक हफ्ता आराम से गुज़र जायेगा और अब मैं घर जा रहा हूँ ताकि में अपने परिवार के साथ कुछ समय व्यतीत कर सकूँ।
- आदमी:-तुम और भी मछलियाँ पकड़ सकते हो अभी पूरा दिन बाकि है जिससे तुम कुछ और कमाई कर सकते हो सकते हो और खुद की एक नाव और खुद के नौकर चाकर भी रख सकते थे और खुद आराम करो।
- मछुआरा :- इससे मुझे क्या हासिल होगा ?
- आदमी:- अच्छा खासा पैसा कमाने के बाद तुम कुछ आदमी काम पर रख सकते हो और यह काम कोई भी चला सकता है तुम्हारी अनुपस्थिति में और साथ ही में तुम पैसा कमाने का कोई ओर ज़रिया भी अपना सकते हो,जिससे तुम्हारे पास कमाने का एक ओर साधन हो जायेगा।
- मछुआरा:- नमस्ते! में चलता हूँ अब। और जो मुझे ज़िन्दगी में चाहिए वो मैं कर ही रहा हूँ।
Moral of the story is:-
Sometimes we get so caught up in producing, achieving and becoming successful, that we may never stop to ask, “What is life all about? What am I really living for?”
मैं आशा करता हूँ की मेरी कुछ बातों से किसी के दिल को ठेस न पहुंचे पर जो मेरे दिल में था तो वो मैंने कुछ अक्षरों मैं लिख दिया।
हिंदी में मैंने काफी सालों बाद कुछ लिखने का प्रयत्न किया है,अगर किसी को कोई गलती नज़र आती है तो उसे कृपया कर मेरे ध्यान में ज़रूर लायें।
धन्यवाद!
Debut Entry in the Blog World
2We are all busy with our daily lives, so much so that not only do we forget that there’s something called a social life, but also, sometimes forget that even our own soul needs attention. In my short life span, I have always felt an urge to give back something to the society as and when possible.
Debut Entry in the Blog World
I am visiting this Blog for more than 06 months but in the begenning I did not used to give my comments.No doubt I liked the thinking of Parul. I always thought why he is writing Blog when the purpose is just to scribble down his own thoughts which he could keep in his mind also. But then I felt many times some random thoughts may come into my mind also; like some flash of a camera & before I could capture it was gone. I read the articles like
Another World Is Not Possible.Please Join Your Hands & Save Earth;, etc which were really inspirational in themselves and they motivated me to write & to help also in some cases.
I guess I am the most useless fellow on this planet at this moment as I am going to scribble something which hass no topic. or some of you may whip the colour of my face into the Vodafone’s old ambassador’s one that cutie plus ugly dog; whatever u take I don’t mind. Well some days ago I was thinking for a suitable topic to write an article. Then I asked Parul to suggest me a good topic for that;but he did not. Then I said him tht I want to write about my past experiences with ‘DPYS’-® & what I think abt the members;bt he did’nt allowed me to make personal statements on anyone. So I promise you: NO PERSONAL ATTACKS atleast this time __ as I know that all of you are best in yourself..
‘DPYS’-® is not yet registered. Still there are many hurdles in the path.To set up the NGO in J&K, we will have to first Register ourself in the Registrar office of the district under Society registration Act 1860 which requires minimum 7 number of members to sign registration and memorandum of association.
Once we are registered we can start our NGO.If the performance is remarkable grant/aid can be received by various government departments/National Bodies/International organizations etc; however they are given mostly after three years establishments of such societies by evaluating their financial statements and contribution.
The NGO can work at regional level as well as on state level which also depends upon our registration.
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Well now you must be thinking why I am writing all this.. Okk let me explain:
As you well know that our NGO has not been registerd yet. Still there are many hurdles in the registration of DPYS. Money is not the main problem for registration. bt the main problem is absence of members in practical meetings. The no of members active on ground level is much less as I have already said that we need minimum 7 number of members to sign registration and memorandum of association…well the members of our community are trying to get it registerd so that we will get the legitimacy to work for the betterment of our society but there are some hurdles regarding d registration of DPYS i.e the requirement of NON… POLITICAL INVOLVENMENT CERTIFICATE. . Its a very simple process and any member can carry out. It will speed up d registration process. due to this hurdle we were not able to get the sponsors as well. So i hope memebers will come 4ward n ll help in gettng d registration of DPYS
It is easy to share a vision but it takes more than that to realize and implement it at a grass root level. I know that most of you might be fortunate enough to be blessed with a good life. So it becomes more meaningful when we do noble activities and give back something to the society we live in. So it is our duty to help the less fortunate ones achieve the basic standards of life.
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True to its name, ‘Redefine Jammu’® perseveres to bring in a positive change by uniting the youth who share the common vision of a developed Jammu, and pay back to the society which helped us.
We are all busy with our daily lives, so much so that not only do we forget that there’s something called a social life, but also, sometimes forget that even our own soul needs attention. I think that we need to give back something to the society as and when possible.
So I personally make a sincere appeal to the youth of Jammu to join our team if you want to be a part of it and share a common dream of a developed Jammu,. We will keep you informed about the schedule of various events [both online & offline]
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Get Involved in social service activities of ‘DPYS’-® , an NGO in Jammu
Your cooperation and support goes a long way in promoting DPYS’s cause. So I personally appeal to each and every individual to share our philanthropic vision and unite for a common cause and share the dream of a developed Jammu. In our relentless pursuit of a better society I sincerely hope that you would extend a helping hand.
Come and be a part of ‘DPYS‘-®.;==A Vision of Developed Jammu.
At present,we are little limited to Orkut and Facebook.You can Join us and be a part of this movement.We need your support.But don’t forget that We will be limited only to these sites.We have started doing some work on grounds too.
What else can you expect me to write here./. coz I don’t know much about DPYS as it ‘s very short time since I joined it. So this is the 101% of what I can write __ & how can I forget to thank Parul who motivated me and helped me a lot; changed my way of thinking in every aspect of life:: THANK YOU VERY MUCH
Hey, yo yo….I need to stop here. Too much now, as my fingers wanna take some rest and you know what? I have not shared the reality of the “Youth of Jammu”. It is better to keep the mouth shut as I can’t afford to take decent words(or u may call it abusive!) by the Young Guns reading this.
Thing is that all of the above lines were written just on a lighter note as it was present in my mind. I wanna tell 1 thing before ending please call it acceptance rather than ‘tell’. God! young guns are always adamant in accepting the things honestly.
I am very disordered person when it comes to time-table. Hope I will make it someday 
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So now I have entered in this virtual world with my random thoughts to share. Hope I will continue this for a long period assuming that this ephemeral world is not going to lost as shown in 2012 flick. If that happens, then I will need to do time travel to past to experience blog writing; but hope that will never happen..
A deep breath in and then a deep breath out ~!!~ pheww…. <~ Thanks to Baba Ramdev ji, I love him ~>
All the comments are welcome!
Double Face of Congress Exposed Again
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congress ka Hath logon ko bewakoof bnane ke kam
This is not for the first time that Congress proposed this bill,they proposed this bill in March,2004 as well when they were in power with the help of Pro- Pakistan People’s Democratic Party.At that time,this bill was passed in the assembly without any discussion in just 6 minutes.This controversial bill created a hue and cry in whole India,which makes Congress to think once again on this.And that makes Congress to cancel the bill.
He further added that “It is the age of women empowerment. The Women’s Reservation Bill has been passed by the Rajya Sabha and the fairer sex in the state should be empowered more. The ownership of property will make her financially, socially and legally strong to stand for her rights.” However, when a woman journalist asked him how could the government talk of women empowerment when it allowed the tabling of an anti-women Bill, the Finance Minister said the Bill had not been passed. He said,“It is a private member’s Bill and we want to expose the Opposition via debate on the issue“.
Mantalai-SudhMahadev—A very famous Pilgrimage in Jammu Kashmir
14Mantalai,Situated a few kilometers further away from Sudh Mahadev
, Mantalai is surrounded by lush deodar forests, at an altitude of over 2000 metres. 
It is believed that Lord Shiva had got married to the Goddess Parvati here.
Legend goes like this,One day while’ Mata Parvati’ was passing through these dense forests, demon ‘Sudhant’s’ evil eyes fell on her and he chased her. To Her utter agony,
‘Mata Parvati’ cried terribly, “Oh Lord Shiva, save me from the cruel hands of the demon.” ‘Lord Shiva “ who was in his deep meditation and sensing the helping voice emanate His anger and got infuriated and let loose his tridant (trishul) which instantly decapped demon’s head who in turn cried agonistically, “Lord Shiva”, “Lord Shiva”.
Hearing his deplorable voice, the lord realized that He has killed his own worshipper and He, therefore, came to ‘Sudhant’ and promised to bring him back to his life. But in the arbitrary prayed overwhelmingly and said, “Oh my lord, I am fortunate enough to have been, killed piously”. Lord Shiva thus gave His divinity at that place and so the name of the sacred shrine thence forth called as ‘Sudhmahadev’.
Lord Shiva married to the Goddess Parvati in the region of Mantalai. There are number of Shiv temples abound the region. The Sudh Mahadev Temple lies close to the town of Mantalai. The ancient place of worship is said to be 2800 years old. Pilgrims flock in the region in the full moon night in the month of August. Wading through the River Devika that
flow by the temple, the pilgrims enter the Sudh Mahadev Temple to offer their prayers to the black marbled Shivling in the temple. The temple is eight kilometers away from the town of Mantalai and the Gauri Kund Spring. The spring is sacred to the Hindu devotees, as it is believed that the Goddess Parvati would bathe in the waters of the spring before offering her prayers to the Lord Shiva.
Insides of the temple is beauteous and enthralling with black idol of ‘Lord Shiva’ and ‘Mata Parvati’ mounted on ‘Nandigan’ and this idol has been excavated from insides of Mantalai. The Lord’s tridant is well in existence which is reported of 16th -17th century back. The broken trident is in three pieces sanctimoniously embedded within the complex of the temple and the top part of Trishul is having a height around eight feet or so.
India’s one of the great Yoga teacher,Dhirendra Brahmachari had tried his best,when he was alive to establish a Yoga centre in Mantalai which is now in deep shambles at present,As he is no more alive. He was born in Bihar in 1924 in District Madhubani,village – Dhanushi Chanpura. He left home in the age of 13 and went to Varansi . He died in controversial circumstances in an aircrash in the 1994.
He was a charishmatic yoga teacher who befriended the Nehru-Gandhi Family. He was also the personal tutor of Indira Gandhi. It was rumored that he had an affair with Indira gandhi, In 1982-83, during the tenure of Indira Gandhi, Brahmachari ran an immensely popular weekly yoga program on Doordarshan.
Dhirendra Brahmachari used to run an arms factory in Jammu. He owned his own personal aircraft and was into major money laundering. His Ashram in Mantalai, Udhampur, was closed after his death and is still not open. He developed this place as a center for yoga several steps were taken.But his dreams remain dreams not only for him but for the whole state.
There is no plausible explanation either why the infrastructure raised by the late Dhirendra Brahmachari at Mantalai should remain unutilised. It includes a building for a hotel and one goshala. The Government should consider executing a scheme for exploiting these resources through public-private partnership. We have a rare natural bounty in our vicinity. Nothing should be left undone to make the most of it.
Now Swami Ramdev have shown some interest in developing this beautiful place. Dhirendra Brahmachari’s death in a plane crash stopped the development of the ashram. A few days ago when Swami Ramdev arrived here in Jammu.The local people requests him to develop this dream project of Late Dhirendra Brahmachari and Swami Ramdev have accepted the proposal rather I should say proposal put by locals. Now this dream project will soon comes to reality If everything goes fine. 
The ashram is spread in almost 1600 canals. Ramdev said that the Center for Yoga and no place can be better than Mantalai.Lets hope for the best and our biased govt. shows some interest in this and helps Swami Ramdev to develop this place as a Yoga Centre.
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