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Dogri Cuisine-Part1(Rajma Chol)
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अज अस निकले दे हन जम्मू सूबे दे मशहुर राजमा चोल खाने ते कन्ने ही निक्की मुट्टी सेर करने उपर,आशा करदे हन तुस्सें लोककें गी एस ब्लॉग 
ऊपर हून एक नवी चीज़ वि लबग और तुस डोगरे दुनिया दे किसी वि कोने च बेयिये जम्मू दे जायके दा मज़ा लेई सकदे हो और हून अस पेश करदे हन एस श्रंखला दी पहली कड़ी :-
राजमा चोल ते जम्मू दा इक वखरा ही मेल है .जम्मू सूबे दे किसी वि कार च कोई वि समागम होए,यां फी किसे मंदिर इच कोई पंडारा और हर एतवार गी, राजमा चोल ते बनना बड़ा ही जरूरी है। राजमा चोल ते डोगरें दा इयो रिश्ता है जियां जम्मू च बरखा ते आंधी तूफ़ान दा,सूरज ते तूप दा। सब्तु बड़ी खासियत एह है की ख़ुशी होवे या गम राजमा चोल हर वेल्ले लबी ही जाने। जम्मू सूबे दे राजमा(रायमा in pure dogri) गी पुरे भारत च सब्तु वदिया मन्या जौंदा है।
सुरनकोट(चड़ीमाडी) ,भदरवाह ते पूँछ दे रायमें दी गाल ही निराली ही , इन्हें गी सोचदे ही मुह च पानी आई जौंदा है।हून ते चाइनीज़,कश्मीरी ते रुसी राजमा वि बाज़ार च आई गेदे हन पर जम्मू सूबे दे राजमे दा मुकाबला कोई नि करी सकदा।
हून अस गाल करनेयाँ एक ऐसे अलाक्के दी जिथे दे राजमा चोल खान दे लेई लोग दूर दूर तूं औंदे हन। जी हां! अस गाल करादे हन पीड़े दे राजमा चोलें दी। पीड़ा ग्रां जम्मू -श्रीनगर नेशनल हाइवे उपर पोंदा है।
जियां ही तुस्स बटोत तूं लंघो और चंदरकोट पूजन तूं पेल्ले तुस्सें गी एह जगह लबी जानी । पर अस्सें गी पीड़े दे राजमा चोल खान दे लेई पीड़ा ग्रां जान दी कोई लौड़ नि है,हाइवे ऊपर ही एक जगह है जिसे गी पीड़ा मोढ़ आख्या जौंदा है,उथे बने दे निक्के निक्के टाब्बें च ही तुस्सें गी राजमा चोलें दा असली सवाद पता लगियाना। टाब्बे आलें दा मीठा स्वाभाव किसे दा वि दिल जीती सकदा है।
तां ही किसे ने सेई आख्या है मीठी है डोगरें दी बोली ते खंड मीठे लोग डोगरे
टाब्बे च तुस्सें गी रायमा दे कन्ने बासमती चोल और ओदे उपर देसी क्यो, ते औदे कन्ने अनारदाने दी चटनी ते उथे चलदी ठंडी ठंडी बा ने तुस्सें गी मंत्रमुग्ध करी देना। तुस लोककें ने अगर एक वारी वि उस जगह दे राजमा चोल खाऊडे ते तुस्सें गी और किसे वि जगह दे राजमा चोल पसंद नि औने, एह गारंटी है साडी …और जो खाए एक बार वो आये बार बार …..बड़े लोग पीड़े दे राजमा चोल खाने दे बाद पुछदे हन की आखिर खासियत एह के पीड़े दे राजमा चोलें दी? एह सारा कमल उथे दे देसी पानी दा हा,जो राजमा चोल बनाने दे मौकी इस्तेमाल होंदा है
जियां की हर कोई जानदा ही ओना जम्मू सूबे दे हर इलाके दे पानी च थोड़ा थोड़ा फरक पेयी जौंदा है और इए फर्क हर जगह दे राजमाएं च वि महसूस किता जौंदा है। इए थोड़ा फर्क आई ही जौंदा है सुन्दरकोट च बन्ने आले राजमा चोल च ते भद्रवाई राजमा चोलें च
पीड़े दे रायमा चोल खान दे वाद हून थोड़े बाटते दे सेयू(सेब) वि खांदे चल्नेयां थोड़ा और जांदे जांदे पतनीतटॉप च वि कूमि लेनेयाँ …पतनीतटॉप दी ठंडी ठंडी बा,यूथ हॉस्टल ग्राउंड ते चिल्ड्रेन पार्क च बेयिये गप्पां मरना,कोड़े(घोड़े) दी सवारी करना,डिस्क कन्ने खेलना,बचे दा चूटे लेना,और उथे दे गोलगप्पे दा वि वखरा ही स्वाद है(एह सारा मज़ा उथे दे देसी पानी दा ही है)
और जौंदे जौंदे कूद दा पतीसा चखिए मुंह मीठा करदे चलो। प्रेम दी हट्टी दे गरम गरम पतिसे दा, ना ही पुरे कूद ते ना ही पूरी दुनिया च कोई मुकाबला है । हून ते प्रेम स्वीट्स आलें ने उधमपुर च दो ते एक जम्मू च वि अपनी हट्टीयां खोली दिति हैं,पर जो मज़ा कूद च प्रेम दी हट्टी दा गरम गरम पतीसा खाने च है ओह और कुधर वि नि है ।
मैं आशा करदा हैं तुस्सें गी एह निक्की जेई सेर पीड़े मोड़ तूं कूद तक शेल लगी होनी …और अगर तुहाडे वि कोई तुजर्बे हन इन जगह ते ज़रूर सांझे करो साडे कन्ने
To be Contd……
Slogan of Jammu’s Govt. Employees:-Strike,Strike,Strike and No Work
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Strike,strike and strike which seems to be the common scenario these days in Jammu.Whenever you watch any local news channel 
or even passes through some govt. office,you can easily find that someone is sitting on the strike.And most of the time,the common demand is increase in the income.
As per Wikipedia,Strike is known as a walkout, a work stoppage caused by the mass refusal of employees to perform work.
But funnier thing is that do these sarkari babus does any type of work in their offices?If Yes,then they have every right to protest but if not,why are they protesting?
But Let me clear one thing here before moving ahead, I am talking about most of the govt. employees,not all.
Whenever some Aam Admi vists any Sarkari daftar,the common excuse these sarkari babus use to give, “Please Kal aana,aaj nhi ho payega”.
Its too hard to digest that itna kya kam karte hain ye sarkari Babu ki humesha kl hi bulate hain and unfortunately that their “Kal” never comes.Ironically,that Kal comes only with bribe or some sifarish.
Mahatma Gandhi once said, “Corruption and hypocrisy ought not to be inevitable products of democracy, as they undoubtedly are today.”How correctly he had said that and it exactly fits in the present condition.
I have read somewhere that if we are able to bring down the corruption even by 20%, it will surely going to skyrocket JK’s GDP. More than 80% of all government transactions are bountiful with corruption either through on the table or through under the table.
There were thousands of Govt. employees were on the strikes few days back demanding increase in retirement age and 6th pay commission (so that they enjoy comfort for 2 years more and gets hefty pays alongwith some bribe.Although they have every right to demand of these Arrears).But my question is:-Do they really deserve 6th pay commission?
We have discussed a lot about the govt. employees and have put a big question mark on their credibility.But what about the other side of coin.Ya,you are right.I am talking about the Govt.Are they Doodh Ke dhule? Not at all,this JK govt. is so corrupt that it is too difficult to narrate that in few words.So,simply no one dares to call this govt. a DOODH KI DHULI.Do they really care of Jkites?
If they are, why no strict action against bribe accepting officials present in the govt.?
Why the officials of IT dept. raided only patwaris and like these?I have never heard that there is any raid in the house of any JK Govt.’s officials? Its request to Omar Abdullah,first clean your house and then try to clean others.But this request is like bhains ke aage Been bajana.
By publishing these cheap advertisements,what are they exactly trying to show?
Their own failure or someone else’s.When will be this Govt. seriously going to start thinking about the state instead of their own pockets?
Unfortunately,there is a third side also involved in this issue.The members of this side always remains on their toes to show their Ghinona Chehra.I hope you have understood till now whom I am exactly talking about.If not,then I ll l
et you know.Iam talking about the leaders of different political parties specially the opposition parties which consists of PDP,BJP,JSM,Panthers Party etc..These leaders always blames govt. for this and that.
But everyone knows that these leaders are mainly behind all these strikes and do their best to provoke the leaders of these unions to go on the strike.These union leaders goes on strike and these oppostion leaders love watching their cheap slogans on TV by sitting in the comforts of A.C.
Its Hard to digest but IS HAMAM MAIN SAB NANGE HAIN.
Who is going to put stop on this corruption,baseless strikes and petty politics? Its YOU,YOU and YOU.
No one else is going to come forward on your behalf to put a stop on them.its your city,your state,your country and your world.So, guys come forward and do your best to stop all these nonsense.In hindi,there is a saying,”Dusre ke fatte Main hum kyun hath Dale?” Its not someone else’s “FATTA”,its your’s which is getting FUTTIER(a word mixture of hindi and english) and FUTTIER day by day.
So guys,Please join your Hands and stop going on hartals every other day and stop accepting bribes.Every Bribe you refuse is a gift(very well written by someone).If you(govt. employees) really work hard ,instead 
of having Chai and gappe in offices,then I am sure then there will be a no voice (like mine) against you.because action speaks louder than words.
“Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”
Signing out,
Jai hind.
Youths Of Jammu
27I have written few articles somewhat related to Jammu’s political crisis but today I am going to share the reality of Youths of Jammu and my good experiences with them while explaining them about the organization which some of youths are in the process of creation. I got great replies from them or rather I should say great excuses.
Let me share some of the great excuses shared by few of my friends during chat.
When I asked one of my friend last night that had she ask any of her friends about our organization?
I got this great reply, rather i should say Excuses–
time is the basic problem
yehi reason hai
sab key passs
n ntng else?”
She continues–
hmmm i agree reasons valid nhii hai
bt we all feel ki kaun tym waste karega….
its nt me…actually its mentality of youth
hey mei sirf general baat kr rahi hun
evn agar apni baat bhi karu na….
toh I’m sure me bhii yehi bolungi?
After this I got one more reply,or u can say a Compliment according to her–
ap bhi yehi bolte
if u wd nt hv been part f it
…..plzzz think over it
its a fact
agar ap isko promote nhii kr rahe hote n all tht….
u kno mene jis se bhii discuss kiya i got same reply as i told…
practicallly kisi baat ko socho toh u’ll come 2 d conclusion ki logon ki kya mentality hai?
I was too amused after getting all these Excuses but cant able to reply her at that time because of my short temperedness on such issues, So thought of writing an article, so that whole world comes to know about the youths of Jammu.
This was just one experience I had.There are many such experiences I ve encountered explaining about this noble cause,but its not right time to narrate all those great experiences.
Ya one more excuse specially from the girls of Jammu , that Our parents will not allow for such work (Papa ko puchh ke btati hun).
May be its not an excuse,But my question to those parents who dont permit/allow their child for being part of such organization is-
“Working for the welfare of Jammu is a crime or what??
For These so called Young Guns of Jammu,someone many years back rightly said “We never know the worth of water till the well is dry”.Youths of Jammu doesn?t know the respect they have to give to their mothertongue and motherland .
Some of the Members of? our organization including–
1.Nittin Singh Sambyal(Working in ICICI bank,).
2.Nittin Sharma(working in some company in Hyderabad,)
3.Rahil Gupta(Student from RS Pura)
4.Surbhi (BBA Student)
5.Harish (Student in NIT,Hamirpur)
6.Garima (Working in Chandigarh)
7.Manu Khajuria (Working in US)
8.Abhishek(Student)
9.Ajay Jathiar(Working in Dubai)
10.Shammi Sharma(Working in Germany).
These are some of the members who actively takes part in discussions and regularly gives their ample time for suggestions and their replies. They are genuinely paying for their state apart from their work schedule of? 8-10 hours in a day and that too out of their homes.
And how can we forget our so-called Young guns:D of Jammu also have lots of Work to do, that includes their hectic schedule of college with timings of 2-3 hrs on average per day and few tuitions which on average maybe around 2-3 hours.So,In total 4-6 hours per day,rest of the day what they do I don’t know.
“Papa ko puchh ke btati hun“ what they exactly wanna say by this?
Kya papa ko achha nhi lagega beti achha kam kar rhi hai?
Ohh! Ya,they have to do lots of work on orkut like chatting with guys and gals,playing great games like-
If u r a cook wat, will u cook 4 the prsn adv u???
Song U R Listening To?
………Trapped WiD D PeR$0|\| @b0vE……….?
Apki Pic dekhi toh yeh Khayal Aya…?
SoMeThiNg FoR tHe PerSoN aBovE YOu?
and many more “mind teasers games”
Most of us sometimes do feel guilty that we have done something wrong which we must have try our best to avoid them.But if someone asks about any of our wrong doings,had had we ever accept the responsibility and admitted that its our fault only. No never but instead of accepting our fault we have started giving excuses.Making excuses for mistakes or to avoid some social work for the welfare of common masses,Youths of Jammu had done mastery in this i.e.,Excuse field.
Excuses deny the responsibility and it is this responsibility which separates youth of Jammu from the rest of the Youths of country.If we have to take credit for our success we always take responsibility but do we accept that responsibility for our failures.
Shakespare has once rightly said that trying to hide our failures with excuses is somewhat like concealing a small hole in the garment with a small patch,doesn?t hide that hole but make the matters worse.
Lets now compare few sayings of Great Personalities with the Youths of Jammu–
- 1. “Earth provides enough to satisfy every man’s need, but not every man’s greed“.
–Mahatma Gandhi.
Isnt this true for the youths of Jammu?
- 2. “Youth is happy because it has the ability to see beauty. Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old“.
–Franz Kafka,Czech writer
Youths of jammu are happy seing the beauty of girls and vice versa and flirting with each other
But they don’t have the ability to see the real beauty that lies in our language,culture,traditions etc. because they are the busiest race ever born on this earth.They are busier than even President,PM of India because these 2 also got some free time.
- 3. “The world is passing through troubling times. The young people of today think of nothing but themselves. They have no reverence for parents or old age. They are impatient of all restraint. They talk as if they knew everything, and what passes for wisdom with us is foolishness with them. As for the girls, they are forward, immodest and unladylike in speech, behavior”.
–Peter the Hermit, attributed, probably apochryphal
- 4. It’s not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.
– Roy Disney, American Film Writer.
- 5. A people that values its privileges above its principles soon loses both.
–Dwight David Eisenhower, 34th president of the United States
Its very much important to know about the traditional and cultural importance of ones place.We are confused a lot and are directionless because of just one reason that,there is lack of respect towards tradition and culture in our state.
Specially the girls today gives lot of importance to the western culture,they might not know who is the CM or Governor of J&K but they surely know who is the President of US.Specially the girls living in cities hardly knows anything about their own culture which is not good indeed.Guys also follow this because of just one silly reason, that is they have to impress girls.But if we don?t remember our traditions and cultural values and not even promote them,then they will soon fade away as the coming generations will be devoid of such rich culture heritage.It is therefore responsibility of ours to promote our culture and traditions.Even still u think its waste of time, . then i’ll just say…”WAKE UP BEFORE ITS TOO LATE”.I love to write a lot but I think its more than enough.
Jai Hind