I have written few articles somewhat related to Jammu’s political crisis but today I am going to share the reality of Youths of Jammu and my good experiences with them while explaining them about the organization which some of youths are in the process of creation. I got great replies from them or rather I should say great excuses.

Let me share some of the great excuses shared by few of my friends during chat.
When I asked one of my friend last night that had she ask any of her friends about our organization?
I got this great reply, rather i should say Excuses–


time is the basic problem
yehi reason hai
sab key passs
n ntng else?”

She continues–
hmmm i agree reasons valid nhii hai
bt we all feel ki kaun tym waste karega….
its nt me…actually its mentality of youth
hey mei sirf general baat kr rahi hun
evn agar apni baat bhi karu na….
toh I’m sure me bhii yehi bolungi?

After this I got one more reply,or u can say a Compliment according to her–

ap bhi yehi bolte
if u wd nt hv been part f it
…..plzzz think over it
its a fact
agar ap isko promote nhii kr rahe hote n all tht….
u kno mene jis se bhii discuss kiya i got same reply as i told…
practicallly kisi baat ko socho toh u’ll come 2 d conclusion ki logon ki kya mentality hai?

I was too amused after getting all these Excuses but cant able to reply her at that time because of my short temperedness on such issues, So thought of writing an article, so that whole world comes to know about the youths of Jammu.
This was just one experience I had.There are many such experiences I ve encountered explaining about this noble cause,but its not right time to narrate all those great experiences.

Ya one more excuse specially from the girls of Jammu , that Our parents will not allow for such work (Papa ko puchh ke btati hun).
May be its not an excuse,But my question to those parents who dont permit/allow their child for being part of such organization is-
“Working for the welfare of Jammu is a crime or what??

For These so called Young Guns of Jammu,someone many years back rightly said “We never know the worth of water till the well is dry”.Youths of Jammu doesn?t know the respect they have to give to their mothertongue and motherland .
Some of the Members of? our organization including–
1.Nittin Singh Sambyal(Working in ICICI bank,).
2.Nittin Sharma(working in some company in Hyderabad,)
3.Rahil Gupta(Student from RS Pura)
4.Surbhi (BBA Student)
5.Harish (Student in NIT,Hamirpur)
6.Garima  (Working in Chandigarh)
7.Manu Khajuria (Working in US)
8.Abhishek(Student)
9.Ajay Jathiar(Working in Dubai)
10.Shammi Sharma(Working in Germany).

These are some of the members who actively takes part in discussions and regularly gives their ample time for suggestions and their replies. They are genuinely paying for their state apart from their work schedule of? 8-10 hours in a day and that too out of their homes.

And how can we forget our so-called Young guns:D of Jammu also have lots of Work to do, that includes their hectic schedule of college with timings of 2-3 hrs on average per day and few tuitions which on average maybe around 2-3 hours.So,In total 4-6 hours per day,rest of the day what they do I don’t know.

“Papa ko puchh ke btati hun“ what they exactly wanna say by this?

Kya papa ko achha nhi lagega beti achha kam kar rhi hai?


Ohh! Ya,they have to do lots of work on orkut like chatting with guys and gals,playing great games like-
If u r a cook wat, will u cook 4 the prsn adv u???

Song U R Listening To?

………Trapped WiD D PeR$0|\| @b0vE……….?
Apki Pic dekhi toh yeh Khayal Aya…?
SoMeThiNg FoR tHe PerSoN aBovE YOu?
and many more “mind teasers games”


Most of us sometimes do feel guilty that we have done something wrong which we must have try our best to avoid them.But if someone asks about any of our wrong doings,had had we ever accept the responsibility and admitted that its our fault only. No never but instead of accepting our fault we have started giving  excuses.Making excuses for mistakes or to avoid some social work for the welfare of common masses,Youths of Jammu had done mastery in this i.e.,Excuse field.
Excuses deny the responsibility and it is this responsibility which separates youth of Jammu from the rest of the Youths of country.If we have to take credit for our success we always take responsibility but do we accept that responsibility for our failures.
Shakespare has once rightly said that trying to hide our failures with excuses is somewhat like concealing a small hole in the garment with a small patch,doesn?t hide that hole but make the matters worse.

Lets now compare few sayings of Great Personalities with the Youths of Jammu–

  • 1. “Earth provides enough to satisfy every man’s need, but not every man’s greed“.

–Mahatma Gandhi.

Isnt this true for the youths of Jammu?


  • 2. “Youth is happy because it has the ability to see beauty. Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old“.

–Franz Kafka,Czech writer

Youths of jammu are happy seing the beauty of girls and vice versa and flirting with each other
But they don’t have the ability to see the real beauty that lies in our language,culture,traditions etc. because they are the busiest race ever born on this earth.They are busier than even President,PM of India because these 2 also got some free time.


  • 3. “The world is passing through troubling times. The young people of today think of nothing but themselves. They have no reverence for parents or old age. They are impatient of all restraint. They talk as if they knew everything, and what passes for wisdom with us is foolishness with them. As for the girls, they are forward, immodest and unladylike in speech, behavior”.

–Peter the Hermit, attributed, probably apochryphal

  • 4. It’s not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.

– Roy Disney, American Film Writer.

  • 5. A people that values its privileges above its principles soon loses both.

–Dwight David Eisenhower, 34th president of the United States

Its very much important to know about the traditional and cultural importance of ones place.We are confused a lot and are directionless because of just one reason that,there is lack of respect towards tradition and culture in our state.

Specially the girls today gives lot of importance to the western culture,they might not know who is the CM or Governor of J&K but they surely know who is the President of US.Specially the girls living in cities hardly knows anything about their own culture which is not good indeed.Guys also follow this because of just one silly reason, that is they have to impress girls.But if we don?t remember our traditions and cultural values and not even promote them,then they will soon fade away as the coming generations will be devoid of such rich culture heritage.It is therefore responsibility of ours to promote our culture and traditions.Even still u think its waste of time, . then i’ll just say…”WAKE UP BEFORE ITS TOO LATE”.I love to write a lot but I think its more than enough.

Jai Hind